Estate planning isn’t just for billionaires. Warren Buffett, at 94, urges families to discuss their wills early.

Why?

Transparency now prevents heartbreak later.

Buffett’s 3-Step Strategy:

  1. Let mature children read your will.
  2. Clarity prevents surprises.
  3. Explain your decisions and their roles. 

Key roles include:

  • Executor/Personal Representative: Manages your estate.
  • Trustee: Handles trust assets.
  • Beneficiaries: Inherit money or assets.

Answer the ‘why’ now. Avoid confusion and resentment later.

Why Talk About It?

  • Avoid family drama: Clear communication reduces conflict.
  • Clarify your intent: Kids understand your reasoning.
  • Strengthen family ties: Inclusion fosters trust.

Uneven Inheritances

  • Splitting your assets 60/20/20? Discuss it.
  • Your choice, your legacy.
  • Talking about it now = fewer hurt feelings later.

The Reality

  • Only 1/3 of families have wills.
  • Of those, 35% don’t discuss them with loved ones.

Best Practice: Start small. Start early. Talk often.

Action Plan:

  1. Summarize your will for your family. 
  2. Meet with your lawyer to clarify details together. 
  3. Follow up individually to ensure understanding. 

Bottom line: Transparency ensures your wishes are honored. Warren Buffett’s advice isn’t just for the ultra-wealthy—it’s for anyone with a family.

Andrew Ayers
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